Asma moinuddin later decides to send an email to teacher to join a different group as kung fu idea is liu bowen idea and sends the following email to the teacher
>>> Asma Moinuddin 2010-10-01 14:57 >>>
Hello Leona!!
We have tried to take your suggestion and work with KUng FU idea(although we have less time) as it was exciting and also majority of people have chosen to work with it.
During our discussion today with kung fu idea there where certain issues we were facing problems for example weather or not to actually contact anyone or just present the idea as a business idea during presention.Lot of us were confused. which built up frustration in certain issues during pretension and during our discussions certain ethical issues were breached and also the Liu Bowen was not happy with my suggestions regarding (not making up things during presentation)and had lost his temper and had claimed that am unproductive and has shown an arrogant behavior towards me. Therefore which leaves me to state were i am unwilling to work with Liu Bowen and am sure he feels the same way about me as well , as he clearly stated that he is unhappy and is angry and feels i am unproductive and that i have not done any work and i feel he lacks work ethics towards me and i was in tears with his behavior towards me. As our differences are irreconcilable, therefore i do not wish that my unproductiveness and my suggestions should bring the group down, therefore i wish to quit working with Liu Bowen.
I would like to apologize to my group members and Liu Bowen for this decision of mine, but i hope as they have witnessed the whole situation and have seen what has happened i hope they would understand my feelings and my values.
And i would like to request Leona if there’s any other group i can work with or would it be possible to further develop whatever idea i have and the amount of work i can do at my own pace to present during presentation.
OR can i get points for the project if i do a report and not presentation (taking my case as exception as am only one left out).
Anup, Razzak and Liu Miao any one of you’ll can join me if you like or continue working which ever you think is easier and beneficial to do.
I am still thankful for Liu Bowen for trusting and cooperating with me and working with our initial idea chosen by him for a while and hoping that if we cant work together at least we could be friends.
Regards
Asma
Hello Leona!!
We have tried to take your suggestion and work with KUng FU idea(although we have less time) as it was exciting and also majority of people have chosen to work with it.
During our discussion today with kung fu idea there where certain issues we were facing problems for example weather or not to actually contact anyone or just present the idea as a business idea during presention.Lot of us were confused. which built up frustration in certain issues during pretension and during our discussions certain ethical issues were breached and also the Liu Bowen was not happy with my suggestions regarding (not making up things during presentation)and had lost his temper and had claimed that am unproductive and has shown an arrogant behavior towards me. Therefore which leaves me to state were i am unwilling to work with Liu Bowen and am sure he feels the same way about me as well , as he clearly stated that he is unhappy and is angry and feels i am unproductive and that i have not done any work and i feel he lacks work ethics towards me and i was in tears with his behavior towards me. As our differences are irreconcilable, therefore i do not wish that my unproductiveness and my suggestions should bring the group down, therefore i wish to quit working with Liu Bowen.
I would like to apologize to my group members and Liu Bowen for this decision of mine, but i hope as they have witnessed the whole situation and have seen what has happened i hope they would understand my feelings and my values.
And i would like to request Leona if there’s any other group i can work with or would it be possible to further develop whatever idea i have and the amount of work i can do at my own pace to present during presentation.
OR can i get points for the project if i do a report and not presentation (taking my case as exception as am only one left out).
Anup, Razzak and Liu Miao any one of you’ll can join me if you like or continue working which ever you think is easier and beneficial to do.
I am still thankful for Liu Bowen for trusting and cooperating with me and working with our initial idea chosen by him for a while and hoping that if we cant work together at least we could be friends.
Regards
Asma
To which Leona replies
Dear Asma, Bowen Liu and team
During team work, conflicts can occur. And the more international the team is, the more conflicts might occur due to the different cultural backgrounds. Being at JIBS, you have come to a very international and diverse environment. We consider it an important and very relevant - though very challenging at times - part of the learning process to become used to working in international teams, and this actually prepares you very realistically to your later work environments. Thus, I understand your immediate reaction of wanting to give up and split up the group. However, imagine you were working at a multinational company and were staffed into a project team and assigned a certain task. You wouldn't be able to just quit there either. As this master program is supposed to prepare you for your future careers, whether as entrepreneurs or in existing organizations, we would nonetheless like to encourage you to give it another try. Can't you try to forget for a moment that you feel hurt and offended, and sit down together to face what has happened and gone wrong in the process? You come from very different backgrounds probably have different values and different expectations. But can't you try to accept those differences and define a basis on which you can still work together, despite all emotions that have been aroused? Just imagine you proud you would feel having overcome that challenge, managed to deliver the course project and jointly made this incredible progress! Tolerance and openness are important issues when being in an intercultural and diverse context, and being effective in such context needs to be learned - you cannot expect that to work from the start. But you are bright, ambitious individuals, so there is no reason why you shouldn't be able to persuade yourself to forgive and re-start.
So basically, I would very much like to encourage you to take this as an entrepreneurial learning opportunity, and I am sure that you would be very proud of yourselves looking back on solving this conflict, rather than running away from it. People are different, cultures are different, but all people are worth the same, and the differences can be a great asset!
Good luck!
Leona
Analysis:
All this while I was mad at Liu Bowen, but when I came back home I tried to rethink the whole situation and read an article on to deal with difficult and arrogant situations in Islamic way. I found out while reading that one must try to find out the cause of such arrogant behavior and I have come to the conclusion that Liu Bowen was only frustrated due to a VALID reason that the work is not done and the sudden change in plan has caused him restlessness, although he lost his temper, all he wanted was the work to be done.
Leona also stated
As this master program is supposed to prepare you for your future careers, whether as entrepreneurs or in existing organizations, we would nonetheless like to encourage you to give it another try. Can't you try to forget for a moment that you feel hurt and offended, and sit down together to face what has happened and gone wrong in the process? You come from very different backgrounds,probably have different values and different expectations. But can't you try to accept those differences and define a basis on which you can still work together, despite all emotions that have been aroused?
As Leona states “However, imagine you were working at a multinational company and were staffed into a project team and assigned a certain task. You wouldn't be able to just quit there either”.
According to Leona it is very true that certain situations and such conflicts are resolved by either the HR or the supervisor of the project.
It is the responsibility of the tutor or the mentor to intervene when a problem was brought in front of them. As I was incapable of resolving it and a authoritative presence would make a difference for both of us, in understandable words (it would have been great if Leona would have called Liu and me in her office and tried to talk us through it) ,for both LIU and ME and we would learn to work with each other again.
In the end the cause of this drama I still think was due the sudden change in the plans and our quick responses to events out of emotions, and the misunderstanding between the group members and impatience to act upon without a second thought that Leona just suggested and that it was not necessary to change the idea. Even after the group tried to reconsider the idea before Leona suggested.
However as I believe everything happens for a reason, I would first like to thank Leona for such a inspiring email and trying to resolve our conflict and second I have learnt that during times of confusion and arrogant situation during project work one must take control of oneself and deal with it with full of patience and calmness and that one should not come to a quick decision out of emotions.
The particular mail from the teacher was defiantly helpful to deal with our situation, although Liu Bowen was not sorry and we dint want talk to each other for a while after the conflict. However it made us work together not only in this project but also in the next one with Jönköping Kommun.
Therefore justifying the statements i had reffered to my previous blogs that entrprenauring is learning (at all stages learning about unplanned changes) and learning( to deal with such changes) is entrprenauring and also that learning happens more with practice.
Therefore justifying the statements i had reffered to my previous blogs that entrprenauring is learning (at all stages learning about unplanned changes) and learning( to deal with such changes) is entrprenauring and also that learning happens more with practice.